Tips for Stepfamilies by Emily & John Visher founders of Stepfamily
Association of America
1. Start out in your own new place if at all possible. This will make
for many fewer "turf" squabbles, hurt feelings, and more ability to rid
yourselves of the ghosts of the past.
{mosimage}There is no magical solution, but adherence to the
following ground rules will bring you one stride closer to living in
harmony with your stepchildren.
In her early years of being a stepmother, Sally Bjornsen had plenty of "What have I gotten myself into?!" moments.
One such moment occurred when one of her two stepsons deliberately
tripped her on the sidewalk in front of Nordstrom. It was compounded
when her husband went to comfort the son, whom she had yelled at,
rather than helping her bruised body and ego off the pavement.