A laurel goes to the Cape Cod Times for recently publishing a positive story about finding ways to blend two families into one. Too bad the reporter didn’t ask how the Census Bureau assigns people to the categories, as the numbers she reports are far below the national averages. She might have found out that many of the children counted as living with a single parent are really living in a shared custody arrangement and therefore the U.S. Census Bureau actually under-estimates the number of stepfamilies.
Stepmom wants to end the battles with her husbands ex
Posted on: 31-05-2007
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Stepmom wants to end the battles with her husband’s ex | Philly | 05/23/2007
For nearly five years I have been the stepmom to three children, ages 24, 21, and17. The ex and I do that great dance called passive aggressive behavior. I am able to hold my tongue for a couple of months at a time until I lose it and lash out–usually by text messaging. I learned that doing that helps you to say things that you normally wouldn’t say to a person’s face. When I do engage over the phone or in person I get so nervous/anxious, I kind of shake.
Should new stepdad discipline stepson? | Philly | 05/30/2007
My daughter is a single mom to my grandson, who is nine years old. My grandson’s father is not and refuses to be involved in his life, although he does send child support. My daughter has been in a serious relationship with someone for the past 15 months or so. We believe they are discussing a future together and I am concerned about this guy’s role in my grandson’s life. For nine years, my daughter and grandson have been a bit of a dynamic duo, with our help when needed. She has been a terrific mother who has raised a little boy who has manners, is friendly, bright, and just a pleasure to be around. That being said, he is nine. Occasionally, his behavior needs correction. I truly believe that should she end up married, the primary responsibility for my grandson’s discipline should remain with her. I intend to express that opinion, if and when the time is appropriate.
My husband and I have been married for 35 years, so we have no reference regarding stepfamilies. What is the general advice in this situation?
Concerned Grandmother
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