What makes being a stepmother so stressful?
Stepmothers tend to underestimate the complexity of their role. They don’t anticipate the feelings they subsequently have of maybe resentment, confusion or ambiguity.
The second area is in their interactions with their stepchildren – they’re just not sure what that relationship is or what it should be. And the third area is their relationship with their partner’s ex.
The women I talked to really cared what the biological mother felt about them and they wanted to make a good impression. But the flip side is that they would get sort of annoyed about the biological mother too. It was a real dichotomy.
Source: Wicked no more: rehabilitating the stepmom – The Globe and Mail
biological mother, Stepchildren, Stepmothers
I feel all of those feeling, can someone give me tips on how to deal with it?